Affirmation: I only attract loving, healthy, and genuine relationships.

Manifesting and fostering positive and purpose-driven relationships.

Affirming that I only attract loving, healthy, and genuine relationships is so powerful. The power in this affirmation is created around the true intention. When we’re intentional, we can create and set clear boundaries and we all NEED boundaries with everyone we’re connected to.

So much of who we are, what we think, and what we do is connected to who we create and maintain relationships with. This is why it’s so important to carefully connect with those who are like-minded, like-hearted, and share common goals as you do.

When you are intentional about who you are connected with it requires a bit of work. Work from within to set your intentions and boundaries, and work from the outside to decipher which connections are worth maintaining. Here are a few ways to help you set your intentions to help you attract loving, healthy, and genuine relationships.

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I. Seek Guidance from God

God is the knower of all things. When you go to him in prayer with a pure heart he will always meet your needs. Before we are formed in our mother’s womb God has already called us to be who we should be through him and set a path for our life. It is humans who deviate from that path when we are not in constant connection with God and his plan for us. When you align your life with God’s purpose he will always connect you with the right people, places, and things. He can build, break, and rebuild connections with people who you thought were not assigned to your life and even those who you thought were assigned to your life. Following the path God has set for your life will always lead you to the people who are assigned to your journey. On his path and with his guidance you will always attract the right people to help you become who you are truly called to be.

II. Be of Good Karma

The Law of Karma states that whatever energy or thoughts you put out in the world you will receive it back. To attract a loving, healthy, and genuine connection with others, you must first be those things. Be all of the things you want to attract, if you want kinder friends, be a kind friend. If you desire an understanding partner, try to be understanding first. Be intentional about being the things you want to receive in life. Karma guarantees that what you give, you will get back, good or bad.

III. Analyze Your Current Relationships

Take time to examine the relationships you have in your life currently. Compare them to the boundaries and intentions you’ve recently set, and determine if they are comparable to the connections you wish to maintain. Perhaps some are not where you would like them to be, maybe there is some work to be done to get your current relationships to a more loving, healthy, or genuine place. If you determine those relationships are a work in progress, be transparent and do the work. Bouts of frustration or conflict between loved ones do not mean null and void. However, be able to discern which relationships are not worth maintaining.

IV. Release People and Relationships that Do Not Serve You Well

Removing or creating distance between you and someone you love can be difficult. After all, while they may not be the best for you, they still have a special place in your heart. However, when you’re elevating and growing, some people will naturally be left behind. Perhaps you all don’t share the same common interests as before, you don’t hang out with the same people or in the same places, or maybe the conversation has changed and it’s just not soothing to your heart or spirit. You know and perhaps you’ve known for some time that your time with this person is slowly dwindling.

Maybe this is a person that you can’t quite remove, but you need to put some space between the two of you. Space could look like not always answering the phone when they call, hanging out with them less than usual, or having a conversation and letting them know that you would like a break from them and that you hope that the two of you can reconvene in the future.

Whichever route you decide is best for the relationship stand strong in your decision. If you’ve carefully analyzed the relationship, sought spiritual guidance, and you’re sure in your heart that you’re making the right decision don’t faint in that conclusion. When you’re serious about building and maintaining the right relationships in your life, you will not think twice about letting go of those who disrupt your peace of mind or life.

All in all, remember that the relationships you have in your life can be either powerful and meaningful or detrimental. Be sure you’re intentional about creating the right relationships to help you constantly evolve into a better being in the long run. Set your boundaries and be sure to seek guidance, be who you want to attract, and remove those who do not align with who you are preparing to be. I hope that you attract loving, healthy, and genuine relationships in your life!

With sincerity and love,

Teyona Rakell